刺绣: to embroider, embroidery...
焰火: fireworks...
不得不: have no choice or option but to, cannot but, have to, can't help it, can't avoid...
真正: genuine, real, true, genuinely...
镇定: calm, unperturbed, cool...
打岔: interruption, to interrupt (esp. talk), to change the subject...
糟蹋: to waste, to defile, to abuse, to insult, to defile, to trample on, to wreck...
伙: companion, partner, group, classifier for groups of people, to combine, together...
不辞而别: to leave without saying good-bye...
事项: matter, item...